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Don’t Quit Before the Miracle

LisaMarie • Sep 16, 2019


You have dreams. 


Big Dreams. 


Maybe dreams that lay dormant from decades ago… 


Or, dreams you walked away from because they never felt like they would become a reality… 


Or, maybe dreams that you just can’t seem to find the time to pursue… 


I get it. 


As someone who has engaged in a stop-start-stop pattern in the past, I never thought I was ever ready or able to do what I was called to do. 


I questioned myself. I discounted the quiet voice. Doubt crept in and kept me from taking action. 


What I’ve learned is if you’ve got big dreams, you’ve got the gifts, talents, and abilities to pursue them. 


I’ve also learned this push forward/pull-back place is how a mission and calling starts out. 


Sometimes it’s a quiet nudge or whisper. Just because it’s quiet, doesn’t mean it isn’t true. 


And, the quiet nudge or whisper can turn to a loud ache and stadium chant if you don’t move forward with a first step. 


Once again, I understand the frustration and feeling too small to step into the bigness of calling. 


You have what it takes to do the work you’re called to do. You can trust that what you don’t “have”, you can learn, find, or get along the way. 


Here are three lessons I’ve learned on my own journey of designing my destiny. 


  1. Take the leap of faith. Even if it doesn’t make sense, a net will appear. So, jump! 
  2. Let go of the need to get it “right” or “perfect”. Simply take the next step and become friends with failure along the way as you learn to love the lessons that show up throughout the journey.
  3. Be gentle on yourself. It takes great courage to design your destiny so extend a little kindness to yourself.


Once you start taking steps, you can gain momentum, create relationships you never would have, discover… ….and, miracles start to happen. The people you’re called to serve are waiting for you. Don’t quit before the miracles. 


Action:

The Upside Thought of the week is to examine where you “are”.


 Is doubt or fear of failure holding you back? 


Remember the quiet voice inside you. 


Remember the people you’re called to serve. 


Apply one of my 3 lessons. 


See what miracles unfold. 


Write them down and share them with a friend. 


The world needs you and your brilliance. 

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Do you ever get stuck focusing on "how" you are going to do something? Most folks get fixated on the mechanics and figuring out the next steps, and then start to see imaginary obstacles, becoming paralyzed and failing to move forward. You don't have to have all the answers or even map out every step. One of my genius zones is identifying the ONE action to take that will make the biggest difference in realizing your vision. Sure, doubt may creep in, especially when the journey seems long. You may even feel overwhelmed. That's why it's best not to go it alone. I've long asked myself, " What is mine to do right now? " The million little moments have added up to me having a leadership and spiritual wellness center. Summit Hills Farm is a place where leaders come to do their work, as leadership is an inside job. The first place to start is answering three questions: ~ Who am I? ~ What do I want? ~ Why does it matter? When you answer these, the how takes care of itself. They will serve as a compass when you're feeling lost on your journey. And simple isn't easy. ACTION: The Upside Challenge this week is to identify one idea you've been feeling stuck on. Instead of getting overwhelmed trying to map out every step of the "how", simply ask yourself: What is the next best small step I can take to move forward? Come up with ONE manageable action step you can accomplish this week. They should feel challenging but doable. Go shine your light. And keep moving forward.
By Lisa Marie Platske 18 Mar, 2024
My computer crashed, the screen on my phone shattered after a fatal drop, and after the roof leak and busted pipe in the apartment earlier in the week, I needed a date night sooner than later. Since Jim and I are typically in bed by 8pm, when we go out to eat it's really a date lunch. (smile) We decided to try someplace new, and it ended up exceeding our expectations. And it was what I would call a Kentucky gem. The food, the people, and the sign on the wall opposite the cash register had me want to come back, as well as forget about my bumpy week. I asked the owner's fiancé about the sign which read: If You Are Hungry and Have No Money, These Meals Have Been Paid for In Advance. Give a Server the Ticket and They Will Have the Kitchen Prepare Your Meal. One Meal Per day, One Meal Per Person. She shared that people give, and folks who are in need, often the homeless, can receive a meal every day. Yet often those receiving want to help out by taking out the trash, etc. It got me thinking about the good of humans and their natural desire to want to serve and give. Everyone wants the same thing. ~ To be valued. ~ To be appreciated. ~ To be loved. The best leaders get this. Jim and I bought 8 meals and shared a little goodwill in the midst of our rollercoaster-y week. Go shine your light. It's needed. Yes... the world truly needs you and your brilliance. ACTION: The Upside Challenge this week is to perform a small act of kindness for someone in need. Look for opportunities to extend compassion - a kind word, a donation to a food bank, bringing clothes to a shelter, buying a meal for a friend who's overwhelmed or overworked. Open your eyes and heart to those struggling around you. It may be someone closer than you realize. When you give freely without expectation, you receive just as much in return. In a society focused on individual success, make it a point to consciously choose to put someone in your community first. The world is better when we lift each other up.
By Lisa Marie Platske 14 Mar, 2024
The worst part of my business is seeing people with potential and watching them squander away their opportunities, understanding that if they put the work in and did it with consistent effort, they would be successful. Massively successful. Sure, they may have to make a few sacrifices. How do you think I got to where I'm at today?!? Instead, I see many folks with potential choose the path of least resistance, making excuses for their plight. I didn't get a silver spoon; rather, I graduated from The School of Hard Knocks. You've got to believe you can achieve what you want -- and that you're worthy to have it. This determines what's possible as it's the seed that will produce delicious fruit or not. You can't choose actions and make decisions from a place of lack or scarcity. That only leads to negative results. To change the success cycle, you have to first see the outcome you want, and then believe it's possible because your mind can't tell the difference between what is imagined and what is real. This goes back to the body of work that Aristotle and Plato brought to the world. If you can start to envision what your life will be like putting in the effort and getting the results, you can change the momentum in your life. Most people only envision the result -- and not the work. They see the car they want to drive or the house they want to live in, and forget to envision what they are willing to do to put forth the effort, energy, and work to have what they want. I've learned the more I do the hard things, the easier my life gets. When I do the easy things, the harder my life gets. Believe in yourself and take the necessary actions. If you don't think what you want is possible, borrow my belief in you. The World Needs You and Your Brilliance. ACTION: The Upside Challenge this week is to pick one area of your life where you've been making excuses or taking the path of least resistance. Identify the potential you have in this area that you have not fully tapped into if you were to do the work. Visualize in detail what it would look like and feel like if you put in the effort and achieved the success you desire. Let yourself believe at your core that you are capable of making it happen. Then, write down 1-3 small, specific action steps you can take this week to start making progress. They should feel challenging and actionable. Remember, the only limits on your potential are the ones you place on yourself. That's the power of Upside Thinking.
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